Monday, January 15, 2018

10 MYTHS VS. FACTS ILLUSTRATIONS THAT WILL BLOW YOUR MIND

Life is a simple thing. There are things that we do as a routine daily, while there are things that we do occasionally, but whether they are routinary or occasional, there are many things that we are actually doing in a wrong way.

These are some of the mind blowing illustrations about the things that you thought are true but are actually myths:

1. Cleopatra was from Egypt
Source: https://twitter.com/MythvsFactss

We've always thought that Cleopatra is from Egypt, but she actually had Greek ancestry!

6 Healthy Reasons to Be in a Relationship

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By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

If you want to be in a relationship, why do you want it? There are a number of unhealthy reasons for wanting a relationship, and these reasons often lead to relationship problems or divorce. The most common UNHEALTHY reason looks something like this:

“I want someone to love me. I didn’t get enough love as I was growing up and I want someone to give me what I didn’t get. I believe that this is what I need to be happy and to feel worthy and complete.”

People who want a relationship for this reason are generally very disappointed, because if they are not loving themselves, their partner’s love cannot fill the empty place within that comes from self-abandonment.

What are the HEALTHY reasons for wanting to be in a relationship?

1. To Share Love and Caring

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There is a huge difference between wanting to get love and desiring to share love. The unhealthy reason above indicates that the person is abandoning themselves — that they have not yet learned to love and value themselves.

When you take responsibility for doing the inner work to learn to love and value yourself, you become filled up with love to share, and it is fulfilling to share your love with a partner. Caring about another person feels very rewarding when you are also caring about yourself. One of the greatest joys in life is the sharing of love, and two people who love and value themselves and share their love and caring with each other are able to experience this deep joy and intimacy.